Summer is nearly upon us, and I've decided there are two kinds of moms - those who just love this free time with their kids and those who wonder how on earth they will spend all this time. I confess that I fall into the latter category. I used to feel bad for not being overjoyed at the prospect of seemingly unending days of blissful bonding with my children. I questioned whether I loved my kids less than those other moms love their kids. But recently I've had a revelation of sorts. I think it comes down to your personality type and how you feel about structure.