Hi, before I list my question I will give a little background. I have a husband and we have two sons, one who is six and the other is three. My husband is the father of both, although biologically only the father of the youngest. We have been together since before our oldest turned two years old. He is not aware that my husband is not his father, we are waiting a couple of more years before telling him. Okay, my issue, my in-laws have two biological grandsons and then they have our oldest son. My mother-in-law let my husband know on this past Friday that she would only allow our youngest, her biological grandson, to spend the night at her house. She allows her other biological grandson to stay over all the time. I am trying so hard to not feel anger towards her, but it is getting increasingly difficult as each day passes and I think about it over and over. My dilema is this, she wants our youngest son to stay with them this weekend and I do not know what to do. My husband is okay with it, my first instinct is to say no, if both of my sons are not welcome then neither will go. Then I begin to think it is not my right to force them to accept my son as their grandson and I do not have the right to deny them their grandson. The protective part of me wants to say no and to not go over there for a visit ever again. I know I am not being rational but I no longer know what the rational reaction is, does anyone have any advice or insight that would help?